I believe Bailin has offered an apology for the stronger aspects of his post and in so doing presented a greater tolerance and udnerstanding than his post suggested. I didn't think it was in bad taste and I don't think he does either, now. I unintentionally incited this etextual "confrontation" and I implore all parties for it's end. My original comment was directed at me hawking the AGA Convention as much as anyone mentioning the AB Aquascaping Contest (there, I mentioned both, again :-) ) In fact, my post wasn't really funny unless one noticed also the footer on my post -- that was the real kicker. I just thought the footer on the Carlos post funny, somewhat out of place in the context. I know that footer was placed by MSN and not the sender. The footer on my message was equally out of place on that particular post of mine. None of the AB contest posts were wrong. Nor mine as intended. There was just irony between the message bodies and the footers. The irony was in the combination of text not in who sent the text. There was nothing more to it than that, just what was in the the lines of text and nothing between the lines. It wasn't meant to be personal. There are plenty more reasons for detente than for confrontation. Perhaps we are all misunderstood or missunderstand a bit in this particular thread. But let's focus on why we all came here. Because it's more fun to do this gardening stuff together than alone. Let this be the last in this thread, we've all things to do -- some of them things we should be doing together. Being who we are, I'm sure Robert and I have more wisecracks to think up, about this, that or the other thing. But no swords are drawn. respectfully, sh ===== S. Hieber - - - - - - - - Aquascaping by Takashi Amano and more at the AGA 2004 Annual Convention Nov 12, 13 & 14; Marriott Crystal Gateway, Arlington, Virginia, USA Aquatic Gardeners Association www.aquatic-gardeners.org __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Finance Tax Center - File online. File on time. http://taxes.yahoo.com/filing.html ------------------ To unsubscribe from this list, please send mail to majordomo@thekrib.com with "Unsubscribe aga-member" in the body of the message. Archives of this list can be found at http://lists.thekrib.com/aga-member/