You do have to keep an eye on Rams if you want fry sometimes they get along most of the time it seems like the male ends up watching the fry. My little experience has been that if the tank size is bigger the parents have a better chance of staying around longer. But, they are a fish to watch and remove if you want the fry to live.
As for the guys and no info. Sometimes we get a little crazy I guess but, we don't mean any harm. Glad I could help. Hope all goes well.