Bonjour Michael In my experience with Rams, your male seems to be unusually aggressive. I can't think of anything you could do to stop his aggression. My suggestion would be to find another male. I usually keep my rams in pairs in 20 gallon long tanks and have no problem with males being overly aggressive. I even have a friend who has a 30 gallon well planted tank that has at least 4 males and 6 females that spawn all over the place in that tank. There is always a clutch of fry with a pair somewhere in his tank. Maybe a different male would do the trick. Don't give up on the one male, try placing a second male in the tank to see if the first male will pair off with the female and raise fry together. John Wubbolt Tupper Lake NY ------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is the apistogramma mailing list, apisto@majordomo.pobox.com. For instructions on how to subscribe or unsubscribe or get help, email apisto-request@majordomo.pobox.com. Search http://altavista.digital.com for "Apistogramma Mailing List Archives"!