I gave my landlord a 55 gallon aquarium, & his wife blew a hissy-fit. Oops. So I found out she likes betas, and I got her a beautiful betta in a simple bowl -- she then went out and spent $40 on for a 5 gallon hex aquarium with filter, I gave her bogwood & fluorite substrate & her pick of my many plants, plus net, food, heater, siphon, thermometer, etc. Then got her interested in some other fish that I pointed out when we were at the local fish store, and then gave her a ten gallon setup, bogwood, substrate, plants, etc. She then asked that instead of the 55 gallon, I give her an unused 30 gallon with stand, so that's what we're setting up now. In fact, her poor husband (who has a master's in marine invertebrate biology, and was the official discoverer of a new species of sea anemone) that I first gave an aquarium to is totally out of the picture -- he is allowed to do water changes. At least I've insured her patience with my multi-tank setup, which is important considering the fact that THEY pay the electricity. Anita >From: DonaldR <gsmd_bari@yahoo.com> >Reply-To: Greater Seattle Aquarium Society member chat<gsas-member@thekrib.com> >To: Greater Seattle Aquarium Society member chat <gsas-member@thekrib.com>, onefish2fish@comcast.net >Subject: Re: [GSAS-Member] Help with Article >Date: Wed, 10 Aug 2005 16:07:30 -0700 (PDT) > >I was able to get back in the hobby when my first child was 5 years >old. I convinced my wife it would be a great learning experience! So I >started small with a 2 1/2 gallon and also set up a tank at his >kindergarten class. That worked fantastically. It was then a 10 gal, a >50 gal and then a 20 gal long. >She complains once in a while but not as much as about MY dog ;) >-Don Rudee > >--- Tom Watson <onefish2fish@comcast.net> wrote: > > > Hi, > > > > I am trying put together a compilation article for American > > Currents > > magazine with the subject: "Pursuing a Fish Head Hobby Without > > Angering Your > > Spouse". > > > > I am soliciting personal observations on the subject (which will be > > credited > > in the article. Here's and example I received from a member of > > another > > list: > > > > "Well, the first tip is, when you win a 55 gallon tank in a raffle, > > be > > prepared to answer the question, "Now where are you going to put > > that?" > > > > It also helps to surround yourself with fish head friends who are > > even less > > moderate than you are. When she brought our family van to the > > cichlid club > > auction to pick up the 55 gallon, my sweet wife made the mistake of > > asking a > > fellow club member, "Do you know how many aquariums we already have?" > > > > My friend didn't miss a beat and said, "I've got 42." > > > > I only have 12." > > > > Tom > > West Hyblos Creek Drainage > > Washington State > > > > _______________________________________________ > > GSAS-Member mailing list > > GSAS-Member@thekrib.com > > http://lists.thekrib.com/mailman/listinfo/gsas-member > > > > > > >____________________________________________________ >Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page >http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs > >_______________________________________________ >GSAS-Member mailing list >GSAS-Member@thekrib.com >http://lists.thekrib.com/mailman/listinfo/gsas-member _______________________________________________ GSAS-Member mailing list GSAS-Member@thekrib.com http://lists.thekrib.com/mailman/listinfo/gsas-member