Hi everyone, I am not replying to anyone's post in particular. I have been lurking out here and thoroughly enjoying this thread. These are the kinds of topics and the type of discussion that makes the hobby fun. I don't have the experience that most of you have, so I will try to stay only in the realm that I might be able to defend. As a scientist (Microbiology - I know, what the heck do do you do with that- you get a real job and then raise fish as a hobby), I am very much against pulling the fry from the parents. I don't have a good reason....well, I thought I had a good reason, but many of you have sort of ruined it for me: I also felt that the Ram's poor parenting could be caused by so many generations of pulling fry. But I guess that it could be caused by a number of unrelated things; not the least is the way they are raised in the Far East (in antibiotics). Once they get here, they are not able to fend for themselves let alone their young. Then I felt that the imprinting mechanism might get screwed up, but Bob Dixon and Big John and others make a great case for the lack of importance for that concept. Then Mike Jacobs made a wonderful point that we really don't know what they like in the wild and only guess that what we see in the aquarium is mimicing what they are living in the real world.......did I get everyone's viewpoint correct? Wow! I am really now very confused. How about this question: who says their is "a" gene that controls the parenting function at all? If it were necessary for a fish to have a gene "turned on" in order to become a good parent, then it would need to be turned on every time. That means that no good parents could be had with pulled eggs. We know that that isn't true, because we do get many good parents with eggs being pulled and the trait lasts for many generations. What if their are a series of genes? like eye color. What if being a good parent was dominant and bad parening was the recessive. Then we could get a great parent, a good parent, a so-so parent, and terrible parent in the same brood. But if we pulled the eggs, then someone might get the good egg and someone might get the bad. But down the line, the dominants could again rise up and take over. What turns the gene on? Maybe it is so important to the survival of the species, that it doesn't require a turning on. Most genes don't need to be turned on by a "behavioural" (English spelling version- makes what you say more important, don't you think?) imprinting type of experience. I guess that my whole outlook on this topic has been turned around. No, I still won't pull eggs (even from my discus pair that have now eaten 20 spawns in a row - after the fry swim free, yet); it just isn't natural to me. However, would I pull eggs if that meant survival of a species for me - you bet. Do I criticize others that do? No! Any thoughts on the above will be welcomed. I'm just enjoying the real biology of the discussion. Thanks. Rich D'Ottavio ------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is the apistogramma mailing list, apisto@listbox.com. For instructions on how to subscribe or unsubscribe or get help, email apisto-request@listbox.com. Search http://altavista.digital.com for "Apistogramma Mailing List Archives"!