A. nijsseni is fairly easy to sex. Check the ventral fins, and you'll find that the female has a lot more black in them. As nijsseni mature, the males ventral fins are also noticeably longer, and yellow-tipped. Now of course, these are relative qualities, so with just two fish, you may have two of the same sex, and my description won't help ;-(. Question to other apistophiles: the sexing method I mention above seems to work well for many spp. I'm familiar with, but I'd like to know with which spp. this technique wouldn't be helpful. Andrew ~^~ ~